Thursday, May 24, 2007

Temporarily Out Of The Country

It's been an interesting few days. We have been working for a while on our visa process. This involves many hours of preparing, translating documents, and many hours of standing in line at the state police department. We have been fortunate in that our teammates and a lawyer we work with have been also doing a major part of this work.

Anyway, it all culminated in a long session at the police department on Wednesday. To summarize, we found out we need to leave the country immediately until our process has been finalized. Initially we were told this would take 3 months, but fortunately that has come way down and it should be a matter of weeks.

Soo...we immediately called our friends Dave & Melissa in Budapest and asked if we could come stay with them. This is now the plan. However, we were delayed by one day because I woke up yesterday morning with the flu. This was right before we had to go with our lawyer to an appointment at another police department in the morning. It was quite difficult, but we all managed to go and keep our appointment.

The good news is that this is just a temporary matter, and we don't think there will be any problem with getting our visa. When I think about it objectively, it's not a big deal - a matter of finding somewhere to be and something to do for a few weeks. On the other hand, we were both kind of emotionally stunned by the whole thing.

This happened the day before our planned team retreat. We all had plane tickets already purchased, as well as an apartment reserved for all of us. Once we left the station, we went to the airline office to see if we could get our tickets refunded, and we were successful. We also have two more weeks of language school still to go, which we will have to forego. Amy's final was actually that same evening, and I'm very impressed that with the stress of sitting through various interviews and lines at the police all day, she still went and did very well on her final test that evening. Unfortunately, I will have to miss my final exam (bummer, right?). We were also invited to participate in a week-long youth festival that's an outreach to students - we will have to pass on this as well.

So, now we're adjusting. I keep reminding myself that this is temporary, because it doesn't feel like it sometimes!-) We're packing up the car, then we have to go back one more time to the station this morning, and then make the 5 hour drive to Budapest. Praise God that we have good friends in another country just a drive away! We actually had several possibilities - when we were told we needed to leave we had to quickly find options. Our teammates had contacts in Sarajevo, Bosnia that were willing to take us, we have colleagues in Slovenia, and we have several friends in Budapest. So initially we'll go to Budapest, and then see what happens. We're also hoping this won't take near as long as we've been told.

Updates to come...

Saturday, May 12, 2007

Emma Turns One!


This week was a big milestone in our family--Emma's first birthday! She turned one year old on Thursday (May 10). I can't believe it's been a year since I lay in the hospital bed with this tiny newborn in my arms. Amazing.

Emma's special day ended up going fine, despite a mishap with the cake frosting which resulted in a major emotional breakdown for Emma's mother. I know that my frosting looking like cottage cheese really wasn't the end of the world, but it sure felt like it! Let's just say it was the "icing on the cake" for all the intercultural adjustment stuff simmering under the surface. And as one of the first holidays away from "home" (where is our home now?), I really wanted everything to be perfect. But I am working through all those issues, and feeling much better now. =) And thanks to Greg who ran to the store for more sugar, I was able to make a new batch of frosting and Emma had a birthday cake after all.

We didn't have any massive parties, but we did invite our friends/teammates over for a little celebration. They have two little girls that Emma loves to play with (well, she doesn't really play with them so much as follow them around and try to take the toys they're playing with). We played a few games, ate some cake, and Emma opened lots of fun presents. (Thanks to both grandmas who mailed birthday packages all the way from the good ol' USA).

Here's a few pictures of the birthday girl on her big day. And yes, she does love cake!




Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Changes

Today is a national holiday here. The holiday is "The 1st of May", which of course we don't usually celebrate in the States.

Traditionally, my picture of how this part of the world would celebrate May 1st looks something like this:

People standing 20 feet away from columns of nuclear missiles that are randomly driven down local city streets. ("No loud noises or sudden movements please...")

In the recent past, this might have been true. However, today people celebrate the 1st of May here more like this:


I think this is probably a good thing.

We didn't do either one. We did have the day off as well, so we decided to go see a friend who lives in a city on the coast. We drove down yesterday and spent the night, then came back today. A quick trip, but still it was a lot of fun. Good food, great weather, an interesting town to see, and a good game of Settlers.

Now I can hit the books again tomorrow!